Dementia Caregiver Support for Christians: Conversations for Christian Caregivers Seeking Clarity and Faithful Dementia & Alzheimer’s Care Decisions

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Are You a Christian Family Caregiver Feeling Worn Thin by Dementia or Alzheimer’s?
You’re not the first Christian caregiver to face this—and you don’t have to guess your way through it.

Welcome to Dementia Caregiver Support for Christians, the podcast that helps you stop guessing in the fog, see what’s actually happening, and learn how to steward this season faithfully with Christ-centered care.

Whether you’re a spouse, adult child, or family member trying to walk this journey faithfully, this show meets you at the intersection of practical dementia guidance and biblical clarity for real caregiving decisions—so you can care for your loved one while protecting your marriage, honoring your responsibilities, and remaining anchored in truth

Here, we answer the questions Christian caregivers are actually asking:
✅ What are the stages of Alzheimer’s disease, and how can I prepare for each stage as a caregiver?
✅ How do I survive dementia caregiving without burnout?
✅ How do I handle aggressive or challenging dementia behaviors – like hitting, yelling, or refusing care?
✅ What is sundowning and how can I manage it?
✅ When is it time to move my loved one to a memory care facility or nursing home?
✅ Why does my loved one with dementia keep asking the same questions repeatedly, and how should I respond?
✅ How can I get my loved one with dementia to bathe or maintain hygiene when they resist?
✅ How do I prevent my loved one from wandering or getting lost?
✅ How do I balance caring for my loved one and other responsibilities (kids, job, spouse) without feeling guilty?
✅ What does dementia caregiving look like from a Christian perspective?
✅ How can I maintain my faith and trust in God while caring for someone with dementia?
✅ Why would God allow my loved one to suffer from Alzheimer’s?
✅ How can I cope with caregiver guilt as a Christian?
✅ What does the Bible say about honoring and caring for elderly parents with dementia?
✅ How do I care for my parent with dementia without losing my marriage?

This podcast isn’t just about surviving—it’s about stewarding.

Because caregiving isn’t a detour from your life. It’s part of your calling.
Each episode offers:
✔️ Biblical clarity in the middle of emotional fog
✔️ Practical, research-informed strategies you can actually use
✔️ Guidance that honors your loved one and protects your most important relationships
✔️ Peace that comes from clear discernment, faithful obedience, and knowing you are not carrying this outside of Christ’s care

You won’t find sugarcoating here. You’ll find real help, thoughtful reflection, and truth rooted in Scripture—spoken plainly, practically, and with care.

🎧 Subscribe now to Dementia Caregiver Support for Christians and take the next faithful step forward—with peace, purpose, and a voice you can trust.
📍 Find free resources and tools at: ThinkDifferentDementia.com
📧 Email: lizette@thinkdifferentdementia.com
🙏 May the Lord bless and keep you—and I’ll see you in the next episode.

Episodes

Friday Apr 26, 2024

110. What Are The 3 Things To Never Do With Your Loved One With Dementia?

Friday Apr 26, 2024

Do you know how to interact with a loved one who has dementia?
Identifying the first signs of dementia in a loved one can be challenging. Often, these signs may go unrecognized even by professionals. Recognizing these early symptoms is crucial for adapting your approach and interactions effectively.

In this episode, Lizette discusses caregiving for individuals with dementia, focusing on adapted communication strategies and the importance of empathy.

She also emphasizes the impact of social isolation and offer solutions like day programs and respite care. Remember to avoid arguments, personalizing behaviors, and isolation.

Remember to share this episode to raise awareness and provide support for dementia caregivers.

1:35 Faith-Based Dementia Care

2:27 Understanding Strange Behavior

4:22 Introduction to Dementia Coaching

5:41 Never Argue or Reason

16:41 Never Take It Personally

24:51 Avoid Isolating Oneself

34:48 Recap: Never Argue or Reason

35:12 Recap: Never Take It Personally

35:32 Recap: Never Isolate Oneself

Dealing with dementia requires patience, understanding, and a gentle hand. By recognizing early signs and adapting our communication strategies, we can provide better care and support. Remember, it's not about winning arguments but about making our loved ones feel safe and loved.

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Are You A Christian Dementia Caregiver Struggling To Cope With Caregiving?
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Wednesday Apr 24, 2024

109. 3 Practical Tips And Tricks For A Stress-Less Dementia Caregiving Journey

Wednesday Apr 24, 2024

Can you really control your emotions?
Many believe that their emotional responses to situations are out of their control, especially in high-stress caregiving scenarios. However, by managing our thoughts, we can significantly influence our feelings and actions, ultimately shaping our reactions and outcomes.

Drawing from Biblical wisdom, Lizette explains how renewing our minds can help us align our thoughts with God's will, leading to more positive emotions and actions. I stress the significance of gratitude in shifting our perspectives and fostering a more joyful caregiving experience.

By catching, challenging, and changing negative thoughts, we can transform our emotional responses and interactions with loved ones with dementia.

Control over our thoughts means control over our emotions and actions, enabling us to face caregiving challenges more positively and productively. By fostering a mindset focused on positivity and proactive thought, caregivers can find more joy and satisfaction in their roles.

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Monday Apr 22, 2024

108. Immediately Track Your Stress For Dementia Caregiver Long Term Health With Cindy Sim

Monday Apr 22, 2024

Have You Ever Wondered How to Effectively Track and Manage Caregiver Stress?
In the world of caregiving, stress management is crucial but often overlooked.

Enter Team CarePal (https://teamcarepal.com/), a groundbreaking app designed to help caregivers monitor and manage their stress levels effectively. This tool offers caregivers the ability to track their stress in real-time, ensuring they can take action before reaching burnout.

Cindy Sim is the CEO of Team CarePal. An app designed to help caregivers track stress and burnout levels. Cindy shares her personal experiences as a caregiver and the inspiration behind creating Team CarePal. She emphasizes the importance of monitoring caregiver burden levels and how the app can help caregivers identify when they need help.

The app provides features such as caregiver burden assessments, educational resources, and a community platform for peer support.

2:39 The Frustrations of Caregiver Stress Tracking
22:31 Begin with the End in Mind and Speaking Dementia
34:51 Building a Community for Peer Support
38:37 Stress Tracking and Support Strategies
42:13 Connecting with Team CarePal for Caregiver Support

Managing caregiver stress is pivotal not only for the health of the caregiver but also for the quality of care they provide. With tools like Team CarePal, caregivers have a resource that supports them in real-time, backed by a community that understands and shares their challenges.

This app is more than just a utility; it’s a companion in the caregiving journey, helping to ensure caregivers can provide the best care without sacrificing their well-being.

Caring for your loved one with dementia doesn't have to be stressful! Join our next free workshop.
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Friday Apr 19, 2024

107. Where To Look For Emotional Support In Alzheimer's Caregiving: Dementia Caregiver Tips

Friday Apr 19, 2024

How Do You Find Strength and Comfort in Scripture During Tough Times?
In times of hardship, such as when a loved one is diagnosed with dementia, finding solace in scripture and hymns can be profoundly comforting.

The hymn "When Peace Like a River" embodies this sense of calm amidst life's storms, reminding us that spiritual grounding can bring immense peace and resilience. Drawing on biblical wisdom and the soothing words of hymns can help anchor us, offering strength and perspective when facing the challenges of dementia caregiving.

0:58 Coping with Dementia Diagnosis
2:25 Running a Marathon of Resilience
4:56 Finding Comfort in Heidelberg Catechism
7:05 Assurance in Faith and Resilience
12:29 Biblical Wisdom for Dementia Caregiving
13:09 Building Resilience in Caregiving
23:07 Options for Joining a Coaching Community

To practically apply this spiritual and emotional grounding, incorporating daily scripture reading and prayer into your routine is essential. Creating a prayer journal can serve as a valuable outlet for expressing feelings and reflecting on the journey.

This practice not only helps in managing the day-to-day stresses of caregiving but also enhances your spiritual well-being, reminding you of the ongoing support from your faith community and God’s enduring presence.

Navigating the journey of dementia caregiving is undeniably challenging, but it also presents an opportunity to deepen one's faith and reliance on spiritual practices.

By grounding oneself in scripture, participating in hymn singing, and maintaining a routine of prayer and reflection, caregivers can find the necessary strength and peace to manage their responsibilities. Remember, you are not alone in this journey—spiritual resilience and community support are always available.

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Wednesday Apr 17, 2024

106. Overcoming Fear, Frustration And Fatigue: A Christian Perspective On Dementia Caregiving

Wednesday Apr 17, 2024

Have You Felt Overwhelmed by the Responsibilities of Dementia Caregiving?
Dementia caregiving can indeed be daunting. The journey is often filled with fear, frustration, and fatigue.

Yet, understanding how to manage these feelings effectively is crucial. It’s comforting to know that faith can be a powerful tool in this journey. Remembering that you're not alone, and that strength and courage can be found through spiritual support helps immensely.

2:07 Recurring Nightmares and Coping Strategies
6:45 Practical Steps to Overcome Fear in Caregiving
12:26 Ask the Dementia Coach Segment Announcement
13:04 Importance of Seeking Support and Caregiver Well-being
13:24 Understanding the Analogy of the Frog
22:52 Workshop Invitation for Managing Challenging Behaviors
31:37 Recap on Overcoming Fear, Frustration, and Fatigue

While dementia caregiving is challenging, it doesn't have to be a journey made in isolation. Equip yourself with knowledge, plan for the future, and engage with a community. Allow faith to guide and strengthen you, and remember to take care of your own needs as well. Through these steps, caregivers can find a sense of control and peace amidst the challenges.

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Monday Apr 15, 2024

105. How One Widower Found Loving Purpose After Dementia Caregiving With Dennis Dulniak

Monday Apr 15, 2024

Have you ever wondered what life looks like after the caregiving journey ends? In this episode, we explore the profound journey of a widower who found new purpose and joy after his intense role as a dementia caregiver concluded.

Dennis Dulniak, a widower with a passion for dementia caregiving, discusses his foundation, Nana's Books (https://www.nanasbooks.org/), which provides educational resources to Title I schools.

Inspired by his late wife Nancy, who had dementia, Dennis emphasizes the importance of creating positive memories despite the challenges. He advocates for support for caregivers and aims to change attitudes towards dementia through early education.

Dennis invites listeners to support Nana's Books and join his men's support group to foster compassion and understanding around dementia and disabilities.

For those who are currently caregivers or those who see caregiving on the horizon, this episode is a call to reflect on the personal changes and growth that come from such profound experiences. It’s also a prompt to consider how to transform personal challenges into actions that benefit others, turning grief into a driving force for good.

The end of the caregiving journey could be the beginning of another beautiful chapter. Let this story inspire you to think about how you can extend your journey’s impact beyond caregiving, creating a lasting legacy that honors your loved one and supports your community.

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Friday Apr 12, 2024

104. Is Resilience Important as a Christian Caregiver in Dementia Care?

Friday Apr 12, 2024

Are you familiar with the Heidelberg Catechism and its relevance to building resilience as a Christian caregiver in dementia care?
If not, you're about to discover why it's crucial for navigating the caregiving journey with strength and grace.

7:05 Finding Comfort in Christ's Sovereignty
12:29 Developing Resilience in Dementia Caregiving
24:33 Importance of Educating Yourself in Caregiving

In the marathon of dementia caregiving, resilience is your running mate. Just as runners don't attempt a marathon without training, caregivers need to build resilience to sustain themselves through the long journey ahead. But what exactly is resilience?

It's the capacity to stay strong and hopeful, drawing from your faith and biblical truths to face trials and challenges head-on.

Caregiving is undeniably challenging, but with resilience built on the solid foundation of faith and the support of a caring community, you can navigate this journey with hope and grace.

Let the Heidelberg Catechism's message of comfort in Christ's sovereignty inspire you to face each day with renewed strength, knowing you're never alone in this journey.

Remember, building resilience in dementia caregiving isn't just about enduring hardship; it's about growing in faith and witnessing God's faithfulness in every step.

Read the Blog: https://www.thinkdifferentdementia.com/christian-caregiver-in-dementia-care

Email me: lizette@thinkdifferentdementia.com

Message me at Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thinkdifferentdementia/

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Wednesday Apr 10, 2024

103. The 3 Most Common Mistakes Christian Dementia Caregivers Make

Wednesday Apr 10, 2024

Are you feeling overwhelmed by the multitude of tasks and responsibilities on your plate as a caregiver, especially from a Christian perspective? You're not alone. Many find themselves struggling to balance caregiving with other life duties.

In this episode, we uncover three typical mistakes Christian dementia caregivers make and offer guidance to overcome them.

2:45 Personal Struggles of a Family Caregiver
6:05 Mistake 1: Not Planning for Inevitable Changes
14:23 Announcement: Ask the Dementia Coach Segment
15:48 Mistake 2: Neglecting Unique Christian Role
20:52 Seeking Help and Wise Counsel
22:36 Mistake 3: Not Beginning with the End in Mind
29:34 Encouragement to Seek Assistance and Well-Being Assessment

By recognizing and addressing these common mistakes, Christian dementia caregivers can navigate their roles more effectively, ensuring both they and their loved ones receive the care and support needed. Remember, you're not alone in this journey.

Seeking assistance, leaning on your faith, and planning strategically can transform the caregiving experience into one of growth, love, and fulfillment.

Read the Blog: https://www.thinkdifferentdementia.com/christian-dementia-caregivers/

Ask the Dementia Coach: https://www. dementiacaregivingmadeeasy.com/ask

Email me: lizette@thinkdifferentdementia.com

Caring for your loved one with dementia doesn't have to be stressful! Join our next free workshop.
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Monday Apr 08, 2024

102. How Designing Your Home Care Team Immediately Relieves Dementia Burden With Mike George

Monday Apr 08, 2024

Have you ever felt overwhelmed by the responsibilities of caregiving for a loved one with dementia? Many caregivers navigate this journey alone for far too long, unaware of the immense relief that building a home care team can bring.

This episode features Mike George from Soaring Families (https://www.soaringfamilies.com/), where the discussion revolves around designing a home care team for family caregivers of individuals living with dementia. The focus is on relieving caregiver burden and ensuring endurance for the caregiving journey. Mike shares his personal experience as a family caregiver and emphasizes the importance of building a support team to share the load effectively.

We also talk about the challenges faced by family caregivers, particularly in starting the caregiving journey without a structured support system in place. Mike highlights the need for family caregivers to recognize the benefits of creating a care team early on to prevent burnout and stress. The importance of setting up the right environment in the home for caregivers is also discussed, including establishing boundaries and privacy considerations.

The message is clear: don't wait until you're overwhelmed to build your home care team. By starting early, focusing on trust, and customizing your approach, you can create a supportive circle that not only makes caregiving manageable but also enhances the quality of life for both you and your loved one. Reach out, explore your options, and take that first step towards a more supported caregiving journey today.

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Friday Apr 05, 2024

101. How to Prevent the "Battle of the Bathing" in Dementia Caregiving

Friday Apr 05, 2024

Have you ever faced the daunting challenge of bathing someone with dementia? For many caregivers, this task can lead to stress and conflict, often referred to as the "Battle of the Bathing." In this episode, we uncover three practical strategies to navigate this challenge with grace and understanding.

Understanding Their Story

Firstly, understanding the life history of the person with dementia is crucial. Their past experiences with bathing and personal hygiene can deeply influence their current behavior. For instance, someone who grew up bathing in a lake might be bewildered by modern showering. By appreciating their background, caregivers can tailor their approach, reducing fear and resistance.

Creating a Comfortable Environment

Secondly, the environment plays a significant role. Many bathrooms can be cold, sterile, and intimidating. Transforming this space into a warm, inviting area can make a world of difference. Think spa-like vibes—soft lighting, pleasant scents, and soothing music. Using adaptive equipment like shower benches or specially designed towels can also enhance safety and comfort.

Managing Expectations

Lastly, managing expectations—yours, not theirs—is vital. Recognizing that daily showers may no longer be necessary or feasible is a part of this process. Instead, focus on what is comfortable and manageable for both of you. Observing and adapting to their natural rhythm can help establish a more harmonious routine.

Practical Support for Caregivers

Beyond these tips, support is available. Free workshops offer a chance to learn more and connect with others facing similar challenges. For those seeking deeper assistance, a low-cost group membership program provides ongoing support, enabling caregivers to learn from real-life scenarios and expert advice.

Remember, you're not alone in this journey. By joining the "Dementia Caregiving for Families" Facebook group, caregivers can find a community of support, sharing both challenges and solutions. Together, we can navigate the complexities of dementia care, turning daunting tasks into moments of connection and understanding.

By employing these strategies and seeking support, caregivers can transform the battle of bathing into a peaceful, even pleasant, routine. Let's approach dementia care not just as a series of tasks but as an opportunity to provide love, respect, and dignity to those we care for.

Caring for your loved one with dementia doesn't have to be stressful! Join our next free workshop.
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It's time to chose ease...

Are you a family caregiver who is dealing with dementia in your life and you feel overwhelmed with the never-ending challenges you face, and don’t know where to turn for help?

Are you searching for answers to your questions about dementia, joining countless Facebook groups but find them toxic and a waste of your precious time?

Do you want to face your dementia caregiving journey in a proactive way, but feel confused about where to even start?

Are you juggling your marriage, your kids, your work, your faith and your loved one’s life and still feel like you are letting everyone down?

Learning the skills you need to simplify your dementia caregiving may seem hard.

But not learning the skills you need to simplify your dementia caregiving journey will be even harder.

It is time to choose your “hard”.

The choice is 100% yours.

I know what I chose: I chose to have ease in my dementia caregiving journey.

Hey, Dementia Success Seeker!

I’m Lizette Cloete. 30 + year veteran occupational therapist turned into a dementia educator, coach and consultant and I am a daughter of dementia.

In this podcast you will learn the truth that the only way to increase the ease of your dementia caregiving journey rests squarely in YOUR hands.

The way you actively prepare and what you believe about dementia caregiving makes all the difference.

>>>You will gain the practical skills you need to simplify care.

>>>You will be challenged by what it means to be a successful caregiver, teaching you to harness the power of the most powerful caregiving tool that you have: your mindset.

>>>And you will learn exactly what dementia is (and is not), how dementia changes the brain and what you can expect next in your dementia caregiving journey.

You will find a community of like minded family caregivers, helping someone with dementia and you will not be alone anymore.

My mission is to help the unsung heroes who are in the midst of dementia caregiving, with the skills to simplify your dementia care journey so that you don’t feel overwhelmed and burn out.

I help you find clarity and certainty using the latest evidence based research, so you have perseverance for this marathon.

I approach dementia caregiving using faith informed principles that allow you to navigate this journey with peace of mind.

So, warm up your coffee, grab a notebook and pen and be ready to be a Dementia Success Seeker.

It’s time to choose your easy.